Category Archives: epiphany
sleep
I’ve been having trouble sleeping lately. At first I thought it was because I’ve been sick for the past couple of weeks – it’s tough to sleep with a coughing fit. Next, I diagnosed that it must be my coffee … Continue reading
Filed under Bridal blues & bliss, epiphany, relationships, simple things, Stella & Dot
breaking the perfectionist
Perfectionism is a cruel trait to have inherited. It’s a debilitating disease that cleverly disguises itself as being meticulous, competent, and confident. The desire to always be right and flawless comes from the root of fear. The fear of failure. … Continue reading
one step at a time
Months of training on the track, surprising myself by actually feeling the urge to run, and staying consistent with my pace finally led to completing last week’s San Jose Rock and Roll Half Marathon. 13.1 miles in 2 hours and … Continue reading
triple milestones
Today J and I celebrate the most momentous milestones, thus far in our lives. Our engagement, our first home together, and our upcoming birthdays. That’s all heavy stuff; I’m still trying to wrap my mind around all three at once. … Continue reading
Filed under epiphany, relationships
miscommunication
I’ve come to realize that over half of my issues stem from the lurking source of miscommunication. Or lack of communication in its entirety. Or conflicting messages. And it’s not just my issue; it seems to be an issue of … Continue reading
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finding a home within a home
So I put off writing an entry explaining my whole San Francisco living situation for some time now. I don’t even like discussing it in person; it’s almost like trying to explain to people why I had to let go … Continue reading
Filed under city travels, epiphany, relationships
levels of friendships
My idea of “friendships” has grossly evolved within the past couple of years. The various levels of friendship in a young professional’s life *please note that friendships in each of these levels can overlap, fluctuate, skip a level, etc: – … Continue reading
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when I grow up…
There’s a great scene in the movie “Love & Basketball” that truly captures how I’ve been feeling lately. It’s been several years out of college for once childhood sweethearts Monica and Quincy. They are neighbors and both used to be … Continue reading
Filed under epiphany, simple things
